Saturday, August 1, 2009

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How to Be Respectful of Your Family

We all know that families are there to love you and respect you, but indeed it is difficult at times to love them back and respect them just as they have done to you!
  1. Help your parents with whatever they need. Do chores around the house when asked, and if it's a special day for a family member that day (E.g.: birthday), do their part so that they know you care and respect them. If it bothers you that you are doing all of the work, try and talk it out or maybe write a list.
  2. Listen to your parents and follow their rules. The rules may sound strict and unfair, but your parents have probably made those rules to help you or for a good reason. If you feel like they are unfair, don't shout at your parents as this will end badly. Ask them for an appointment to talk about the rules to help you understand them and the reason for them. If you adopt the "help me understand your point of view" stance, they will be much more likely to give you increased freedom in time and to take your ideas into consideration.
  3. Try not to argue with your family. Work your conflicts out with your siblings and count to ten with your parents if you know you are about to have a temper tantrum. This is the key to having respect and love flowing around the house.
  4. Be polite. Respect also means manners. Being at home doesn't mean you can omit the 'please' and 'thank you'. If your younger siblings don't seem to remember this, try and remind them gently, so they too will see how important being polite is. Remember your manners at all times, especially if your parents have guests round.
  5. Don't talk back. Respecting people doesn't just mean being nice to them. Talking back, rolling your eyes, smacking your lips, showing by your body language that you aren't listening-- all these responses are bad for all relationships, not just family. It also makes people think you are rude and don't care about your family, which is not the impression you want to make.
  6. If you get punished, accept it and don't make a fuss. You have done something wrong, so you have to take the consequences. Be mature and just get on with it, for example if you are grounded, don't break the rules of your grounding and it will be over and done with sooner than you think. Learn something from your punishments and don't do whatever you did again. If you truly disagree that the punishment was deserved, calmly talk it out with your family.
  7. If you have friends come over, make sure they behave politely. Behaving politely is a good part of being respectful, and respecting your parents means making sure your friends do, too.
  8. Last but not the least, think of all the things you love about this unique family of yours. Everyone has their own unique traits, respect that! Remind yourselves that manners, love and respect is the key to every healthy relationship.

Tips

  • When something bothers you, talk it out. It helps to vent and work out your problems, not keep it in and not know when your anger will explode. You can also write it down in a diary or a blog when you can't talk it out with somebody.
  • Write down a little list of values and good points of your family members.It could be small so that you can put it in your wallet and take with you wherever you go. When you feel like talking back, take it out and just read it a couple of times.

Why "MEN" never argue with women!

Never argue with a Woman

one morning the husband returns after several hours of fishing and decides to take a nap. Although not familiar with the lake, the wife decides to take the boat out. She motors out a short distance, anchors, and reads her book.
Along comes a Game Warden in his boat. He pulls up alongside the woman and says, "Good morning, Ma'am.. What are you doing?"
"Reading a book," she replies, (thinking, "Isn't that obvious?")
"You're in a Restricted Fishing Area," he informs her.
"I'm sorry, officer, but I'm not fishing. I'm reading."
"Yes, but you have all the equipment. For all I know you could start at any moment. I'll have to take you in and write you up."
"If you do that, I'll have to charge you with sexual assault," says the woman.
"But I haven't even touched you," says the game warden.
"That's true, but you have all the equipment. For all I know you could start at any moment."
"Have a nice day ma'am," and he left.

MORAL:
Never argue with a woman who reads. It's likely she can also think .

Stupid is alive!!!

I see stupidity is alive and doing quite well

Now I've seen everything.... Can you believe it?

'Breast Implants For Your Tattoo?!'
'Breast Implants For Your Tattoo!!!'
And this guy can vote???

Which Do You Prefer?

Tough Choices, But don't worry the Solution is on the bottom of the page
which do you prefer ?











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Kama unaona kuwa kuna kitu kinakufurahisha humu kwenye blog yangu basi hakuna noma kama ukiniangushia sifa mwanangu mwenyewe.....
Washkaji Mungu akipenda tutaonana basi.........ila kumbuka kuwa Mungu ni mmoja na siku zote anafanya maajabu kwahiyo si mbaya kama tukimshuru kwa kila nia.....
Mungu awabariki watu wote wa Dunia hii.Amen!

9 Things I Hate About Everyone

1. People who point at their wrist while asking for the time.... I know where my watch is pal, where the hell is yours? Do I point at my crotch when I ask where the toilet is?



2
 People who are willing to get off their ass to search the entire room for the T.V.. remote because they refuse to walk to the T.V. and change the channel manually. 

3
 When people say 'Oh you just want to have your cake and eat it too'. Damn right! What good is cake if you can't eat it? 

4
 When people say 'it's always the last place you look'. Of course it is. Why the hell would you keep looking after you've found it? Do people do this? Who and where are they?   cause I amGonna Kick their asses! 

5
 When people say while watching a film 'did you see that?'. No Loser, I paid $12 to come to the cinema and stare at the damn floor. 

6
 People who ask 'Can I ask you a question?'.... Didn't really give me a choice there, did ya sunshine? 


7.
 When something is 'new and improved!'. Which is it? If it's new, then there has never been anything before it. If it's an improvement, then there must have been something before it, couldn't be new.

8
 When people say 'life is short'. What the hell?? Life is the longest damn thing anyone ever does!! What can you do that's longer?




9
 When you are waiting for the bus and someone asks 'Has the bus come yet?'. If the bus came would I be standing here, dumbass? 

 

If you are having a bad day, remember it could be worse...

If you are having a bad day,  remember it could be worse...